If you recognize yourself as a shining example of a submissive bottom, but want to get even better in making your dom growl of pleasure, here are some useful tips. Hes imagine the other guy lying beneath him during anal, letting him doing what he pleases to him, be it chocking, ass-to-mouth, etc. A gay man who is into the power play thing indulges in a fantasy about being in control and dominating his partner. A classical kinkster can, for example, derive pleasure from the D/s sex dynamics as opposed to vanilla/versatile sex.
Sex therapists and psychologists claim that kinksters who not only fantasize about doing “naughty” stuff with their partners, but actually include their kinks into their sex life are, as a rule, happier and mentally more stable than the average person.
